Any idea how he can love you?  Why is he waiting so long to tell me how he feels?  How does he not know by now if I’m the one for him?  He could be the real deal but you need to chill.

You might be beautiful and he will go with that for a while, but love comes differently for men than you might expect.  Intellect is what he loves about you.  Your mind captivates his heart, keeping him around each year.  Loves comes differently but it should begin with loving you from the inside first.

The stats aren’t lying to you.  Facts state an emotional connection and profound admiration fuel a lasting relationship.  Your union needs a successful friendship to make love work; let it all come natural and honest.  The more you care about one another as people, the better the love will be.  It’s easier to be in love with you when he already loves you.

Until you both arrive to that mutual respect of acknowledging you want to be a genuine couple, sex needs to wait for now.  Sex will make him like you temporarily, however, eventually another gorgeous women will come along who can rock the bedposts in ways you couldn’t.  Love comes differently and so does sexual attraction.

Time should not be a factor to you and rushing him to say “I love you” just leads him to the door forever.   Let everything be natural and roll along how it is.  They are his words to speak when he wants to.

Your man will tell you he loves you when he knows he loves you.  He needs to know he is lucky to have you on his own recognition beforehand.  You should be his partner in crime even when you go through tough phases, as couples do.  Men fall for the women they believe are perfect for them.  Love comes differently for men and usually takes longer to realize their feelings.

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Love brings behavioral changes in human beings. If we observe a person who is in deep love, we would definitely find the basic changes in him/her at the first glance. However there is no certain set of rules that can be applicable to fathom out whether a man has fallen in love with another woman or vice versa. During our childhood days, we get contented with the sense of material love but with the passage of time, it is the fragrance of romantic love that allures us the most.

It is utterly important that you know the mindset of the person with whom you want to make love. Otherwise all of your emotions for your desired man would be lost in the long run. So to understand whether he loves you or not, you need to interact with him, spend long hours and also make him realize that you have a soft feeling for him. Talking to him intimately and showing interest in his personal preferences and tastes will help you come closer to your man. When you are judging your partner’s feeling try not to reveal your intention to him.

The first thing that you must consider is his verbal comments. This may be of various types like ‘I love you’, ‘I like you’, or any other comments that sounds good and expresses his feelings for you. Try to understand his voice along with his approach of saying – measure whether it is passionate, direct from heart or it is any artificial gesture. Though it is really difficult to make out anyone’s intention right from his speech, still you should carry on speaking with him in the hope of unearthing the real truth. If he continue speaking in the same way and show his interest to you, be sure that he has some soft corner for you too.

There are many people who lack expressing their feelings through words; instead they express through actions. Suppose you meet a boy who could not express his feelings to you in words but gifted you something very romantic, you must praise his action and speak about that gift while interacting with him afterwards to carry the relationship further. If he has feelings for you, he would definitely gift you on many occasions in future too.

A man truly loves you if he makes you feel special by offering you flowers or any special item whenever you meet him. He would ring you not only at casual hours but also in odd hours…even at the dead of night. It is because he wants to feel your presence and would like to spend some moments with you. He would even sacrifice his other friends for you, because he values you more than anyone else. He would always pay heed to your words – what you say and what you feel. The sound of your television set may be at the peak but he would find way to listen your words.

If you find that he shows interest in spending long times with you and talks to you more like a friend, you can obviously go further with him. If he is in love with you he would definitely feel for you and would arrange to spend special times with you. If you feel sick promptly tell him and observe how he reacts. He would definitely nurse you with great love and care, and would do exactly what is required at that moment. If he behaves otherwise…keep in mind that he does not love you at all.

You can also get to know his intention from behavior of his friends and close relatives with you. If they respect you and hold you in high regard, you can be sure that he has spoken to them about his feelings for you. Try finding out how he spends his leisure time. If you realize that he spends thinking of you for hours together…do not go for other person; keep settled with this man. He is the best man, who can give you pleasure and satisfaction in life more than anyone else in the world. At the time of taking any decision if he asks you for your opinions and follows that, it is a sign the he needs you at important times also. Difference of opinion occurs mostly at the time of watching television. In every crisis and hours of confusion he will respect you ideas and likings if he is in love with you.

Apart from all these characteristics, he would be passionate for you, would show interest to hug or kiss you, touch you and would like to have a very intimate and personal relationship. So, if you find any of the above ideas similar with your present boyfriend, you can rest assured that he truly loves you.

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I believe that texting serves as a way for shy men and/or women to communicate and express what they are truly feeling without feeling embarrassed in doing so. People set up dates while texting, set up meetings while texting, and people break up by texting. Break up? What? No this is not acceptable. I find myself dealing with a lot of men that only text and have lost the concept of communicating using the rare form of dialing a telephone number in order to speak with one another. Why has talking on the telephone become so obsolete in this day and age?

The day where people have home phones has vanished, more and more people have cellular phones and have done away with a home telephone service. Well with home telephone service you can’t text. If we cant text then we don’t want a telephone. God forbid.

Though most couples probably wouldn’t attempt to take their relationship to the next level via wireless communication, a growing number of Americans are flirting, setting up dates and even whispering (er, spelling out?) sweet nothings through the digital medium of short message service (SMS).

Sent between cellphones, Blackberries or other handheld devices, these mini-missives of 160 characters or less offer potential dates a fast, informal way to connect. But while text messages can be endearingly short and sweet, men and women often have polarized opinions about how they should be used in romantic situations. In speaking with Stephanie, age 27 she states: “When someone asked me to dinner for the first time over text message, I found it more than a little insulting,” “So I sent him a reply suggesting that he pick up the phone and ask me out properly. I never heard from him again.”

Mixed signals

Though men primarily use messaging as a tool for managing their relationships, women often view text as another way to foster emotional interaction, according to UK research presented last July at the International Pragmatics Association conference. And though both sexes will revise plans, break dates or even end relationships over text, “men are a lot more likely to do so,” says Simeon Yates of Sheffield Hallam University, the study’s lead researcher. He says the text gets the point across “without a lengthy and uncomfortable explanation.”

Fast, cheap and easy, text messaging is rapidly replacing some cell phone calls between romantic partners. Like a burger from a drive-thru window, text offers near-instant gratification. However, it isn’t always satisfying — or healthy — in the long run.

“There’s nothing wrong with sending a quick note if you’re busy or just want to flirt, but it’s hard to have any real interaction over text,” says Greg Behrendt, best-selling co-author of He’s Just Not That Into You. “In the buffet of communication, text messaging should be a side dish, not the entree.” But some text “addicts” have turned the missives into the meat and potatoes of their social interaction. Some women say they have had entire relationships that started, flourished and finally extinguished via text (and its first cousin, the instant message). Others extol the virtues of a medium that allows them to break “the rules” they had learned to keep a potential mate interested.

“If you don’t know someone that well — or if you don’t want to make a move in a big way — a text message is a much easier and more innocent way to be flirtatious than a phone call,” “A phone call implies a big gesture; a text message seems cute and effortless.”

But it’s men — the gender long accused of not communicating enough — who have developed the deepest respect for the power of text messaging. Sam Nashag, 31, a Marine stationed in San Diego who just left for Iraq, is a heavy texter who uses the messages to gauge whether potential dates are legitimately interested or just being polite. “With the threat of rejection being so high, you want to get a feel for the situation before asking for that first date,” he says.

Nashag, who describes text as “the best invention since the ATM,” says it allows him to avoid direct rejection, because the recipient can simply ignore his overtures. And on the flip side, he doesn’t have to offer a reason when canceling plans, because there’s no room for details. Text “gets you freed up in that moment and then you can push off dealing with an explanation.”

Though Nashag’s fellow Marine Derek Filipe, 26, balks at the idea of asking for a first date through text, he’s not opposed to arranging the next get-together that way. “Only one of the women I’ve dated has ever called me and said that sending text messages really annoys her,” he says. But rather than give up his preferred form of communication, “I just send her a text and wait for her to call me back.”

Playing by the rules

Text has emerged as a way for some daters to do less, act as if they care less and, in doing so, gain the upper hand in a new relationship.

Because men and women use text strategically, “you shouldn’t automatically assume someone is blowing you off if they’re sending text messages,” Behrendt says. Etiquette expert Ceri Marsh, co-author of The Fabulous Girl’s Guide to Decorum, has a less tolerant view of the text-as-courting ritual.

“It’s a pretty bad sign if the person pursuing you can’t be bothered to pick up the phone and ask you out,” she says. “The person is showing you they’re not really ready to get involved.”

She agrees that text can be a good icebreaker and handy for relaying such things as a time change. But she says it should not be used for more emotional messages.

“Couples have arguments over text because of a simple misunderstanding in wording or tone. They’ll say ‘What exactly did you mean by that emoticon?’ “

Clayton, the student whose boyfriend revealed he loved her via text, says they used to duke it out over text. The angry messages would “fly back and forth for hours” until she got frustrated and turned off her phone.

As with any new line of communication, the ground rules for text’s uses are still being established by the first generation of users. But just because text messaging is a modern invention doesn’t mean its users should do away with “old-fashioned” courtesy. Technology may change, but thoughtfulness never goes out of style.

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Loving someone is risky business, so it’s natural that fear is present in relationships. But when fear operates in our life in a way that hurts us or hurts others—through aggression or withdrawal—it becomes a problem. Recognizing these fears and how they affect our life can help us make the necessary changes to get the love we want.

1. Fear of losing freedom. Tied down, trapped, cornered, stuck—this “claustrophobia” points to mistaken beliefs about what relationships are supposed to be.

2. Fear of conflict. Let’s face it, love can be messy. But it doesn’t have to be destructive. Constructive communication skills can be learned.

3. Fear of change. Change means work, discomfort, uncertainty. But oh, the rewards of growth and depth and renewal!

4. Fear of giving up or losing control. We don’t have to surrender personal power in a healthy relationship.

5. Fear of pain. Ultimately, we must decide whether we trust fear or trust love.

6. Fear of being “found out.” When we hide our true self from those we love, we’re usually afraid that our true self is unlovable.

7. Fear of losing self. Often this comes from watching others (parent, friend, relative) suppress their individuality in relationship.

8. Fear of not being enough. When we fear our own inadequacy, we often expect perfection in our partners.

9. Fear of rejection. To avoid being rejected, we may become pleasers, taking our authentic needs and desires out of the equation.

10. Fear of dependency. Some worry about losing the ability to take care of themselves, some about the responsibility for others.

Six Tips to Get Past Your Ex and On With Life…

Tear soaked tissues are piled at your feet. You’ve finished off a sticky tub of ice cream with a spoon, and you feel like such a cliché. You dumped him, or he dumped you. Maybe you mutually decided to break up. No matter how or why it ended, getting over a failed relationship is horribly hard. Use these six tips to get over your ex, and get on with life. Watch yourself blossom into a stronger, happier woman. You can do it, and you’ll be more fabulous than ever! 

1. Make a No Contact Policy.

Stop calling, texting, and talking. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can be “just friends.” Contact with your ex-lover will open lots of intense, unpleasant emotion. Delete your ex from your cell phone. If he contacts you, tell him to stop, so you can heal and start fresh. If your ex keeps it up, block his cell number, and use a new email account. Stay away from the places you used to hang out together. Don’t listen to “our song” anymore. It will only bring up memories that will stress you out. Since you shared friends, this is a good time to make new ones, and to take a break from some of the old. If you must see your ex, be polite, but no more than that. 

2. Make Your List.

Write down the reasons you broke up. Be honest with yourself. Post the list on your mirror, or keep it in a pocket or purse. Stop harboring dreams of getting back together. Sometimes, we romanticize a past relationship, which can stop us from moving forward. If you’re tempted to contact your past honey, or if you just can’t stop thinking about old times together, read the list to remind yourself of the problems in the relationship. Tell yourself that the breakup was O.K. Accept that some pairs of people are just not a good match.  

3. Give Yourself Time.

Allow yourself lots and lots of time. You need it to get the old relationship out of your system. It may take months, depending on the length and intensity of the broken relationship. You may pine away for awhile, or feel very lonely. Be patient with yourself. Slowly, the ice jam in your heart will begin to melt. Usually, your heart takes much longer than your head to get past a relationship.  

4. Get Busy.

Now is the time to spruce up your life by exploring new horizons.  Try new things. Nurture your talents.  If you’ve always wanted to paint or play guitar, do it. Volunteer at a hospital or soup kitchen. Take weekend trips to the beach with friends, get back into a favorite hobby, and dance like mad. Be your fabulous self. When you’re busy riding horses, cooking exotic cuisine, exploring new towns, and hanging out with your own buds, you’ll be distracted from your broken heart. You’ll also be adding fresh experiences to your life, which will make you a happier, more dynamic, energized, and independent person. 

5. Don’t Jump Right Back In.

After a breakup is when you are vulnerable to a rebound relationship. Rebound hook-ups happen way too soon and too easily. They can be bad for both people involved. Don’t be the girl who jumped into a stupid relationship when she was weak. Honor yourself and your future love by waiting until you are strong and whole.  You must go through the entire process of healing from your past relationship. When you’re finally ready for a new love, you will have a refreshed, strong, and confident self to offer. 

6. Am I Over it Yet?

A fresh new era of life is coming. It doesn’t seem possible, but better days are on their way. You’ll know you’re past the heartbreak when you haven’t thought about your ex in weeks. Then someone will mention your old lover’s name, and you’ll calmly think to yourself, “Oh, yeah… I haven’t thought of that person in a long while.” That’s when you know you’ve made it. You are stronger, wiser, and accomplished. You’re ready to go after whatever you want in life.

There are many tricky dating scenarios out there, but dating your friends ex has got to be one of the most complicated.  Many a lifelong friendship has been lost over just this situation, and it is important to tread carefully when you find yourself attracted to your friend’s ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.  In some cases dating your friends ex will work out very well, but in all too many cases it ends in tears and shouting.

If you are thinking about dating your friends ex it is important to set down some rules of the road before you proceed.  One of the most important things to keep in mind is that honesty is the best policy when it comes to dating your friends ex.  Trying to hide the relationship is extremely dangerous, and chances are your friend will find out eventually.  Trying to hide the fact that you are dating your friends ex is sure to doom your friendship.  Being honest and up front about your desire to start dating your friends ex may not make your friend happy, but it may preserve the friendship in the long run.

It is also important to take a close look at the value of the friendship before dating your friends ex.  Close friends are often harder to come by than casual dates, and you may want to give up your dreams of dating your friends ex to preserve an important friendship.  If on the other hand you are only casual acquaintances it may be worth the risk to start dating your friends ex. 

Of course it is also important to consider things like how attracted you are to your friend’s ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.  Love can triumph over great adversity, so if you fell compelled to start dating your friends ex there may be a good reason for that.  If you truly think you are in love you may be willing to risk losing your friendship in order to start dating your friends ex.

After you have made the fateful decision to start dating your friends ex it is important to tread cautiously, at least in the beginning.  Even if your friend has assured you he or she has no problems with you dating your friends ex it may be awkward if you all meet each other while out on the town. It is important to handle any unexpected meetings with the greatest care, and it is probably best to avoid planned get togethers at least for awhile. 

After everyone involved is comfortable with you dating your friends ex it may be possible for everyone to get together and share fun stories, but chances are that is down the road awhile.  For the time being it is probably best to focus on getting the relationship off the ground and avoid the problems that dating your friends ex can sometimes bring.  With the right preparation dating your friends ex can be a rich and rewarding experience, but it is important to understand the pitfalls of these unique relationships.

Have you ever wondered if your spouse or significant other is cheating on you? You don’t need hidden cameras or sting operations to discover the ugly truth. There are four tell-tale signs that all unfaithful partners share.

1. Is he or she making critical remarks about you?

When someone is being critical, they are attempting to take the attention off of themselves and make you look inward at yourself in a negative way.

2. Is he or she disinterested in spending time with you?

When your significant other doesn’t want to be around you anymore this is because they’ve done something to harm you. That something may not be as serious as cheating, but there is something there that you don’t know about.

3. Does he or she blow up and physically leave the room or home after a fight?

 As a general rule, the one who’s always leaving or running away can no longer tolerate being around the person they’ve wronged.

4. Does he or she accuse you of cheating?

If you’ve been faithful, but your significant other accuses you of cheating, be certain that he or she is guilty. As a general rule, whatever the person is accusing you of, he or she has done to you.

If you’ve answered yes to any of the above questions, chances are, you’re being cheated on. Don’t ignore or doubt the above signs. If your significant other is doing any of the above, it’s highly likely that he or she us being unfaithful.

The only way to handle a cheater is to keep your cool and call them on it. Ask them to tell you what’s going on. If you want to salvage the relationship, getting this off their chest is the only way to stop the criticism, the blow-ups and the cheating behavior.

The world is full of eligible and attractive single men, but sometimes the age barrier can get in the way. . Sometimes dating older men is no problem at all, but other times the age difference can really become a problem.  Dating older men has both its advantages and its disadvantages, and it is important to consider the pluses and minuses before jumping into a new relationship with an older man.

One of the most important things to consider when dating older men is whether or not the age difference is a concern to you.  Some women have absolutely no problem with dating older men, while other women may be very concerned about the age difference.  How you feel personally will greatly affect your chances for dating success, so be honest with yourself and take stock of how you really feel about dating older men.

It is also important to take the concerns of your family into account, especially if you think your dating older men will lead to a permanent relationship. While you don’t need to give your family veto power over every relationship, it is a good idea to find out how mom and dad feel about the idea of dating older men.  Some parents may be totally unconcerned about your dating older men, while others may be very concerned indeed.

Your own age will play a role in the appropriateness of dating older men as well.  As we age the issue of age differences can diminish, and few people will blink an eye at a 40 year old woman dating older men of 50 or 55.  The same age difference can be a bigger deal when the women are younger, however, and many people do not look kindly on 25 year olds who choose to date 16 year old girls.  If you are on the younger side you may want to give your desire to start dating older men a second look before proceeding.  As you get older, however, you may find the idea of dating older men more attractive, and more socially acceptable.

Once you have decided that dating older men is the right choice for you it is a good idea to look at some ways you can meet and start dating older men.  There are plenty of ways to meet eligible older men, including dating people at work or dating friends of friends.  In addition to these traditional methods there are many online dating sites that help single women find and start dating older men. 

These sites are not difficult to find, but it can be difficult to sort out the best online dating sites from all the rest.  If you want to start dating older men it is a good idea to review the profiles of current members before you sign up. You will want to make sure there are plenty of eligible older men signed up for the site before you join.  You will also want to make sure that you will be able to start dating older men who live in your own area.  Keep in mind that many of the most popular online dating sites operate nationally, so it is important to make sure there are plenty of eligible single men in your area on the site.  Once you have ensured that you will be able to use the site to start dating older men you can join and start looking for the man of your dreams.

There’s no argument that men are different than women.  Not only are they physically dissimilar, but their whole mental approach to life is worlds apart.  The man’s thought process is basic, almost primeval. In fact, it is primitive and men are driven by instinct rather than emotion.Sometimes overly logical, man rationalizes his world based on simplistic needs.  Man will look at a cave and see a hole in the ground, a place to lay his blanket and be sheltered from the rain.  A woman will look at that same cave and see a home – a place to be comfortable and raise a family.

From this one example it’s easy to see how far apart men and women can be when it comes to the romantic aspects of a relationship – dating, gifts, and intimacy.   

Dating:

One of man’s greatest inventions is the wheel, so his enthusiasm over any activity that revolves around this discovery shouldn’t come as a surprise.  Such events as Monster Truck Rallies, Motocross racing, and anything where a car can legally go faster than posted speed limits is a natural attraction for man.

Unfortunately, women don’t always understand the appeal of exhaust fumes, dust and the roar of vehicles without mufflers.  These are to a man what candles, flowers and soft music are to a woman – a pure turn-on!

Physical activities like football and hockey bring out the competitive side of man and he can’t help the compelling draw to watch warriors competing on a sports battleground.  Wresting!  This is the ultimate show of brute force – man against man – animalistic one on one combat.  Women out-dress and out-cook each other; men take an easier approach and just beat each other up.

What has this got to do with dating?  Simple – these activities are man’s passion, so he quite naturally wants to include his woman in the things he loves. When you mention a date, the woman thinks of a movie; the man agrees, but it has to be an action movie.  A woman will think ballet; man looks at break dancing.  Women enjoy stage performances; a man’s stage is the boxing ring.

Understand these underlying differences in thought patterns and women will be able to easily manoeuvre their men into a romantic evening.  Try the candle light dinner and a moonlit walk along the beach – after the baseball game.

Romantic dinners:

For men, eating was never meant to be romantic.  Grabbing something to eat is a basic means of replenishing their strength, or an activity taken during a social gathering.  There was always a practical purpose for eating – and it had absolutely nothing to do with romance.  

The basic man enjoys basic cooking – barbeques, deep fried chicken, pizza and fast food.  If you can wash it down with bottled beer, it’s good.  If you can do that without having to get out of your jeans, it’s even better.

Eating a meal wasn’t intended to be a prolonged event for man.  When a man eats, it’s usually a prelude to something that he really wants to do – watching the football game, going to the bar, having sex.  Knowing this, it may be wise for the woman to insinuate a long night of unimaginable pleasure if her man will take his time at the dining room table.

Gifts from the heart 

Man is always fascinated by anything he can take apart, use to take something apart, makes loud noise, or he can hang on the garage wall.  Hand tools, power accessories, and anything electronic – give your man a ratchet set and he’s in Heaven; add a compressor and you’d think he just had sex.

He enjoys the role of handyman, so tools are a natural gift for him. Considering this mentality, is it so strange that the gift he selects for his woman happens to be a kitchen utensil, or microwave oven? 

If you leave the choice of gifts up to the man and expect something personal, you may be disappointed.  Help the man out and make him a list of what you want.  He’ll appreciate it.

Sex and intimacy

Wherever the word ‘sex’ came from, it was made for the man.  It’s a simple three letter, one syllable word that’s easy for men to remember and to say.  Like eating, sex is a fundamental need, one more pleasurable project on his list of things to do. If he doesn’t have to get dressed up for dinner, he won’t.  If he can have sex without foreplay, he will.

If women want their men to be romantic, then they have to train him.  Since men aren’t all that complicated, training should be relatively simple. 

Some will say that men are truly romantically challenged while others will defend man’s simplistic approach to love as being a product of his prehistoric heritage.  Women have evolved to be these complex creatures and have to exercise patience while their men catch up.

Think of foreplay as the appetizer before a meal. Without it – Sure,    you’ll enjoy the main course. But with a few bites here and there beforehand, your palate will be smacking with delight. The same goes for sex.

It’s easy when you’re busy or hot for each other to skip foreplay. But if you’re looking to rev your sex life up tenfold, then you’ll want to try these tips the next time your man gives you the come hither look. Trust me, putting the brakes on intercourse for a few “previews” will make him hotter for you than ever. And the sex that follows will prove it.

When you’re stuck in a rut or when you want to spice up your already sizzling sex life, foreplay can be the answer. Try these hot tips and he’ll be begging for you.

1.  Talk Dirty

Yep, it works like a charm. Try calling your man unexpectedly at work and telling him what you’re doing to yourself. Paint an erotic picture in his mind that won’t leave until he’s in your arms later on. Another alternative? Send him sexy text messages or pics if you have a camera phone.

2. Suck on his fingers

The wetness will mimic the feeling of your mouth on his penis and it’ll send him over the edge. Try this one anywhere, but especially in the car on the way home. You may not make it through the door.

3. If you and your beau live together,

Try splashing a little water on your t-shirt while doing the dishes. Your wet nipples – braless of course – will have him going wild.

4. Kiss that area just under his earlobe.

It’s totally sensitive and will have him tingling for more.

5. Tell him your fantasies, then have him tell you his.

This works great on the phone, especially late at night, or when you’re together and he least expects it

6. Wear sexy lingerie under your clothes.

Leave your blouse unbuttoned. Go commando. The power of sexy lingerie or no lingerie at all never fails to drive men wild.

7.  Touch yourself

Don’t be shy. Let your Rico Suave know he’s not the only one who can please you. Your confidence and the sheer “hotness” of what you’re doing will have him begging to touch you.

Foreplay isn’t always easy, especially if you or your guy is the shy type. If you’re not sure where to start, just begin with a look – the one that drives him wild; the one that says you want him now. Give it to him when he’s not expecting it. Then follow it up by a few sexy words whispered in his ear and you’re good to go.

The important thing is to start somewhere. Don’t wait for him to take initiative on this one. Foreplay is just as important for women as it is for men. So flaunt what you’ve got and let the sexpot in you come out!