Have you ever wondered if your spouse or significant other is cheating on you? You don’t need hidden cameras or sting operations to discover the ugly truth. There are four tell-tale signs that all unfaithful partners share.

1. Is he or she making critical remarks about you?

When someone is being critical, they are attempting to take the attention off of themselves and make you look inward at yourself in a negative way.

2. Is he or she disinterested in spending time with you?

When your significant other doesn’t want to be around you anymore this is because they’ve done something to harm you. That something may not be as serious as cheating, but there is something there that you don’t know about.

3. Does he or she blow up and physically leave the room or home after a fight?

 As a general rule, the one who’s always leaving or running away can no longer tolerate being around the person they’ve wronged.

4. Does he or she accuse you of cheating?

If you’ve been faithful, but your significant other accuses you of cheating, be certain that he or she is guilty. As a general rule, whatever the person is accusing you of, he or she has done to you.

If you’ve answered yes to any of the above questions, chances are, you’re being cheated on. Don’t ignore or doubt the above signs. If your significant other is doing any of the above, it’s highly likely that he or she us being unfaithful.

The only way to handle a cheater is to keep your cool and call them on it. Ask them to tell you what’s going on. If you want to salvage the relationship, getting this off their chest is the only way to stop the criticism, the blow-ups and the cheating behavior.